Message in a bottle.

While at the beach you decide to write a message in a bottle. What would it say? Who would you like to find it.

If I were to write a message in a bottle it would be a message to the universe. It would be a message about being kind. Treating others like you want to be treated. Respect human life. Stop and smell the roses and a have faith. I would hope whomever found it needs to hear it.

QOTD Thursday

I saw this on a friends FB so I snagged it 

OK confession time!!! Post one thing that would mildly embarrass you that would surprise most of your friends (good for the soul!)

Wednesday QOTD

You know you are an Military Wife when _____.

Monday/Tuesday QOTD

Do You Ever Wish You Could Get a Baby Naming Do-Over?

Friday QOTD

Are you or your child allergic to Peanuts or other food allergies? How do you deal with them? Are parents right in asking that a kid with a food allergy removed from public school because its just too dangerous? I know my daughters school has food rules. I can't send her to school with PB& J or any kind of cupcake for her Birthday because of Food Allergies. The rules are strict in standard for the protection of the children. Read the article and share your thoughts.






Parents want child with peanut allergy removed from school

Read more: http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/blogs/sfmoms/detail?entry_id=85498#ixzz1HiBei6fF

Thursday QOTD

So I was thinking. I have a very short tolerance for people that are ignorant, Close Minded, or too lazy to learn and do things for themselves. Stupidity has nothing to do with either of those two terms. If you were raised into ignorance you can rise above and educate yourself. 

Definition of IGNORANCE

: the state or fact of being ignorant : lack of knowledge, education, or awareness

close-minded
	1.Someone that does not try to view something in the opposite way. close-minded is when you beleive in something or in someone and your mind will stay closed to that beleive and will not even try to acknoledge it. 2. close-minded on religion or race is when you don't even try to understand. When you think that Allah is stupid or Shiva. And god and Jesus are the only dictators of the universe.

So on to the question of the day. 

If you had to be like Dory from Finding Nemo ... you know short term memory loss, hyper, "nothing in my noggin" kind of brain or would you rather be ignorant and close minded?

How do you deal with these people anyways? You say hey there is a coupon for a free soda online. You just print it up and take it to the store... they say why don't you print it up for me and bring the soda here? Do you say go to hell? LOL What if it becomes a habit?

I am not very good at serving anyone with a silver platter. Matter of fact if you haven't shined my platter if I do give you something I am probably going to be pissy a bit about it. Dee Dee Dee

I don't get hand outs. If you want a cheap kitchen table then look on freecycle or a yard sale. Its not my job to do it for you. What makes you think I am more able bodied than you are? I don't usually even baby my children to that point. Sometimes yes we all need a hand and I am right there to provide you with a helping hand. But I REFUSE to be a constant babysitter for an able bodied adult that can do anything they want on their own. If I do it for you, if someone always does things for you. Then you will never learn to do it for yourself. If your broke... get a job... yes even with the price of daycare I did it! If your momma pays your bills and your over 18 guess what you have no reason to bitch about your momma! On the other hand they have plenty of reason to bitch at YOU! You can say hey can you keep an eye out for me my step son needs a coat. I say okay I will but then I expect you to do the same for me. If it ain't happening then don't ask twice. I am the Google Queen but that doesn't mean I have a million hours a day to google for you what you can google for yourself.  Let me Google that for you?

Oh and most of all if I am doing you a favor there usually isn't a time limit on how long it will take me so don't ask me in five minutes if I am done... Your not my priority!

okay so my QOTD became a rant...

Wednesday QOTD

Did you ever love a song...then some drama happened that the song reminded you of and it quickly became on your ugh I can't stand that song list? What happened?

Monday's Tuesday Question of the Day

So yesterday. I unofficially really started to take control of my weight. I don't diet because diet is short term. You have to totally change your way of thinking, eating and exercising. I am using Sparkpeople.com for my calorie counter... and this blog.. So have you had your own weight loss journey? Did you use Atkins, Weight Watchers, or something else? Tell me about your experience and share your blog if you use one.

It's hard when you always have to be the strong one, no-one ever notices when your not ok... until you break

QOTD Friday

I have really started to enjoy most evenings on the couch with my husband cuddling with my kids (sometimes) watching our evening TV. On Monday its a reality show (like the Bachelor), and then Castle, We watch American Idol, Greys Anatomy, Army Wives, Desperate Housewives and Bones. So we've been watching round two of Brad Womack.. Rick thinks he is a pretty much southern gentleman and Emily is his southern belle. You know how my husband feels about his belles lol

So I will have to watch the clip of the final rose again because everyone said they think they won't last. I didn't get that much iciness from her body language from what I remember... of course I am plenty blind by 8 o'clock...  So I don't know I will have to watch it again. What do you think of Brad's choice? How can she not expect a temper? REALLY? Mrs soft spoken can't always have that soft spoken fellow... just look at Rick and I lmao.. Do you think they will make it to the Alter? What about Molly and Jason will last? Ali and Roberto?  or do you think Trista and Ryan are the only two true soul mates & not fame whores?

If you don't watch the Bachelor. What kind of shows do you like? What's on your boob toob? What do you watch as a family?

QOTD Wednesday

QOTD

What Item of his do you always have near you...... atleast while your at home?

QOTD

What is your favorite worship music? Link me!

My church plays awesome music but I never know the titles! Help me out!

What is your worst dating experience?

My worst dating experience was when I was first starting to date. All of my group of friends used to play around on the phone chat lines and I met a man off the phone chat line and he took me to my favorite resturant for dinner and then proceeded to talk about this woman through the whole date and put her down. He didn't know that woman was me. Its either that or I was set up on a blind date by someone much older than me when i was 21 and my sister suggested I go to the movies with him, so I did. The whole time I was clearing my throat hinting I wanted a drink or snack or something. He never bought me anything but my movie ticket but expected his good night kiss. EWWW NO! Ok guys so if you want to take a girl to the movies (Which I hate going on a date to the movies) then buy her something if your too broke or cheap then don't take her there and don't expect a good night kiss for being cheap on a first date.

Are you sending a care package to the troops this holiday season?

                                                                

Heck I have two troops in my family that are overseas. My husband finally got his Christmas Care Package after two weeks. Boy that was driving me nuts. He did cheat and pulled one thing out. Ah well. He's got a birthday care package landing there soon! I just haven't had the time to do more. Alex got his christmas presents and stuff as well. He also needs me to send him his laptop. Joys!

   Here's what some other's are doing for the troops

http://www.xanga.com/yearinthelife

http://www.xanga.com/armywife0923

I just answered this Featured Question, you can answer it too!

Do you think long distance relationships work?

Yes they can work. I think if you love someone you will go through hell for them. You will wait for them. You will be faithful and trust them. It takes work. I mean flights or long drives to see each other. Constant communication. My husband doesn't have too much faith in long distance relationships but we are in one now for just this year. We are still as much if not more in love than the day we got married. Absoultely

Where do you want to travel most in the world?

Where ever my heart (my husband) leads me.

What's your Favorite book and why?

Bible of course~ It provides me with insight, faith, love, power, grace, and humbleness...

Then Gianna Aborted and Lived to tell about it. ~ This book taught me more about my faith and how to give my troubles to God and just about faith and how to accept things you cannot change. Gianna is a very strong woman.

Unlikely Angel ~ Another strong woman. I picked up this book because I knew the story from being in Georgia at the time of events. The book was on sale and I really was glued to it.

The Great Gatsby ~ I just love this story

Beowulf ~ Classic Lit :)

Shakespeare ~ Who's a better writer?

and Chicken Soup Books.. ~ Inspirational.

   

I just answered this Featured Question, you can answer it too!

What would be one moment that you would cherish the most in your life?

Well since I have two kids and I can only chose one moment.... I will say The last time I said I love you to Mackenzie and gave him a kiss which is rare for him... Every Moment I say I love you to Skylar & Rick... That's the moment I will cherish forever.

Which deceased or living person would you clone and why?

I don't believe in human cloning. But it would have to be my grandfather because he is the best person I have ever known.

Is the idea of marriage too outdated for the 21st century?

I might have answered differently till I fell in love with my husband.