The Misadventures of Bella's Second Life: Friend Makin Monday

Monday, February 28, 2011

Friend Makin Monday

. .I have been on a friend hibernation during the winter. A lot of things happened in the fall that made me step back and say whoa I need to re evaluate. So I have been. I have been staying close to home and family. Luckily (haha) I have had a terrible cold/ Flu/ pneumonia something since November. So I CAN'T go gallivanting around spreading my germs especially if I am under the weather at that given moment. I just now started returning to church sitting away from the crowd etc. I feel so disconnected from my ladies at Playgroup and at church. I missed church dearly I just had to return. The consignment sales have returned and due to a fever I didn't get a chance to consign myself. Anyone in this area knows there are the big 4 consignments twice a year for kids clothes etc. I HATE doing it alone. I despise it but Rick gets in there and he shuts down, gets angry, gets short... I just can't deal with him when he is overwhelming like that and he makes no attempt at being there for me when I need him. This is one of the major times I wish I had a good girl friend to shop with, A good girl friend to hold William while I get my hair done (and I can hold her baby while she got hers done or something of that nature) you know what I mean? Am I the only female that craves that kind of relationship with another female? A female to do female things with that males hate to do no matter what? Its always been a very sensitive topic for me. Anyways since the fall and all the drama went down I have limited my association with a lot of people because of the drama and pain they put me through. I have been networking with some new ladies and talking to them on Facebook and whatever... I am liking the sound of a new group of women rolling off my tongue... Oh honey Stephanie had this idea that.. Michelle said ... I love that! So its a new me and a new change.

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1. Favorite things about Spring: Butterflies and life becoming a new again kinda like the scene from Bambi LOL

2. What I'm doing for Spring Break: I WANTED to go to Georgia but it looks like I am stuck at home.. not all true there are consignment sales that week LOL

3. Favorite Spring flower: Tulips, My Papa Bear had a field of tulips on his farm he owned when I was a child. Ever since then Tulips are the one thing guaranteed to make me smile. Its so sad they are only fresh and in bloom for so little a time. I love them and Daffodils so much I am motivated enough to dig up my flower beds and plant some Tulips in the Fall! So I can have them next spring. Oh and the hydrangea at the stores is making me want them SO badly so I might have to plant some of those too. I just gotta find my green thumb and some knowledge... Lets see how my Lilies and Irises survived the winter first lmao

4. Do you have a garden? I have what was built with the house. A nice sized bed with two rows of shrubs and I have made a small bed on the side of the drive way for Irises and a small bed with a holly bush that badly needs trimmed I guess.. Like I said all this was here from the previous owner and probably the builder.